Day's six and seven of The Love Dare are "Love is not Irritable" and "Love Believes the Best".
Love always believes the best is easier for me. I tend to consider all of the things that Tommy does that makes me still smitten after all these years rather than the million and one reasons he irritates the daylights out of me. Focusing on the positive more than the negative creates a deeper love between us. All of his annoyances aside, he is the greatest man alive and was made just for me. Why would I not choose to think about that instead of his limited flaws. (We won't talk about my many flaws... just glad Tommy chooses to overlook them usually too!)